Are You Addicted To The Limitations In Your Business?
Posted by ~Ray @ 2007-12-12 22:32:30
move documentary part narrative drama and part visual hallucinogen the main purpose of the movie - regardless of whether you agree or be with its theses -is to get you to shift your paradigms about your undergo of life and reality.
Integrating interviews with top scientists,neurobiologists and quantum physicists.. amazing animation and special effects.. and a storyline featuring Oscar winner Marlee Matlin as a jaded photographer who falls down a metaphysical rabbit hole this movie promises - if you act an open mind - to create transform and rattle every limited belief you ever had about life. For the biggest skeptics it explains from a quantum physics perspective how your object and perceptions drive every undergo and outcome in your life. That includes every aspect of your business right now.
In this viewing of the movie the plug was an interviewee's mention that "we are addicted to our emotions." i e. we have a chemical addiction to rejection conflict fear etc. evaluate about it. Don't you know people who actually get "hooked" on evince and crises? Such states cause a chemical reaction in the be triggering the "fight or pip" adrenaline response. As a prove we get addicted to the adrenaline "high."
From an NLP (NeuroLinguistic Programming) perspective there is a comparable notion called "secondary gains." Ever had those challenges in your business that no be how hard you tried to overcome them you got no alter in results? Or a goal you aggressively pursued with marginal progress?
"Secondary gains" are unconscious benefits for staying stuck. These secondary gains make you "addicted" to your limitations. On a conscious aim this notion sounds crazy. Afterall why would you rather stay stuck in your challenges than bring home the bacon your desired goals or outcomes?
Example: A former client came to me struggling to make the necessary marketing calls to change her business. She knew "what" she needed to do. She had spent thousand's of $$'s on the beat seminars from top industry producers and had a proven system to bend success. Despite the best of conscious intentions and effort her results were dismal.
desire most populate however she thought her air was a superficial one - ie. needing to better manage measure. It was not. Within 30 minutes of our coaching session we uncovered the real reason.. the secondary obtain.. why she struggling in her business.
The underlying reason... If she became successful in her business she would no longer undergo an excuse/reason to be in her failing marriage. As long as she was dependant on her preserve financially she could justify why she needed to stay. As illogical as it may appear to someone not in the situation our behaviors and choices are anything but rational. They are driven by emotions and beliefs oftentimes not for positive reasons.
Uncovering "secondary gains" is critical to realizing that next BIG success breakthrough. If you are stuck or not realizing results in any aspect of your business or profession...
Denise Corcoran - CEO. The Empowered Business (tm) - assists CEOs executives and business owners in taking a quantum move from the ordinary to extraordinary from unrealized dreams to mastering their destiny from decrease growth to exponential results. A business & leadership coach strategic consultant and know NLP Practioner. Denise's unique "inside out" approach provides deep transformation and lasting change in you your organization and your results. Her latest e-book: "The Mindset of Greatness: 21 Principles to Becoming an Unstoppable Woman... Oprah Winfrey call!" [ADVERTHERE]Related article:
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